So... Gwen Stefani got me thinking (say wha??). She's obviously referring to a certain type of person in her song Ain't No Hollaback Girl, but she brings to light a point that I found noteworthy. Why is it that some people allow themselves to be victimized by being at the beck and call of those around them? Prioritizing and self-preservation just get tossed out the window at a moments notice. It's bananas. B-A-N-A-N-A-S.

All I know is that I've been smacked in the face pretty hard by this. My enthusiastic attitude doesn't jive so well with the self-centered feelings inside me (or at least the one's I'm willing to share publicly). Frankly, that always leaves me feeling sore. If there were one thing I could change about myself it would be my constant desire to please those around me. I'm not so much of a "yes" man as I am a "sure, I'll make you feel like I'm right there with you" man. Natch.

Why is this thought just now coming to fruition? It's not actually because I was listening to Ms. Stefani. But someone unkindly reminded me of this. He/she's probably reading this post so I'll refrain from any more elaboration.

Not sure if this has happened to you or not... just a thought.

By the way - I'm listening to Sunshine by Billy Miles (aka Nelly Furtado + Macy Gray - annoying raspy voice + perfect beach weather).

This entry was posted by eric yang, on Monday, June 13, 2005. You can leave your response.